Lament and Tribute to Grandma Beverly

This is the poem I wrote and read at Grandma's Services. I wanted to post it here, in her honor.

What can I say about the mother of my father?
I loved her, admired her, and adored her.
And to think about her, I have many recollections.
I remember her as Red head, Blond and Brunette.
I remember her confidence, and her strength.
I remember visiting her at Christmas, as she assured me that Santa would find us even at her house in Filmore.
I remember her visiting for my high school graduation, and coming to see me preform for State Honor Choir.
She was always so proud of all her grandchildren, and she always told us so.
I remember when she first saw Lindsey, her oldest great grandchild.
The pride and joy on her face unmeasurable.
I remember visiting her in Las Vegas. She knew where the best buffets were, and all the free shows.
I remember her playing Harry Belefonte on the radio, dancing and singing, truely happy.
I remember when she was diagnosed with breast cancer.
Her strength shined so bright, as she fought it off.
Following that, she had many hard times, but always she would put on a brave face to me.
Everything was always fine, because she was always doing her best.
She would never give up.
Now she is gone.
Did I tell her I loved her enough?
Did I tell her how much I admired her?
Did I visit enough?
No.
Time and distance made excuses that carried the "I love yous" and visits away.
But I always knew of her love, and I hope she always knew of mine.
And although there will be no future visits, there is always the cherished moments together, etched into my memory forever.
I will always love you grandma.
I will always miss you.
A part of me will always be sad you are gone,
But I will survive on the many memories you gave me,
And I will never forget the courageous, confident woman that you were, as I try to follow your strong example.

A hard week

Dad called me on Friday afternoon, and asked what I was up to. I told him, and upon thinking about it, I thought "Why would he want to know?" My first thought was that Mom and him had come down to surprise us or something. "Are you guys down here?" I asked. Dad said something along the lines of "I wish", and then bad possibilities came into my head. He wanted me to call him back later, after Halloween. I said I wanted to know whatever it was. I think I actually said "Is something wrong with Grandma?" and he told me the news. Grandma Beverly passed away on October 31. I was glad he told me, but it was hard to keep it from the kids until after Halloween. Lindsey was pretty sad about it, but she is glad we get to go down and visit Aunt Terrie and the cousins.
So with that as my starting point, I then had to work this week. And what song were the kids supposed to learn this week? "Over the river and through the wood". The original words read like this:

"Over the river and through the woods to Grandfathers house we go. The horse knows the way to carry the sleigh thru' the white and drifted snow. Over the river and through the wood, oh how the wind does blow. It stings the toes and bites the nose, as over the ground we go.

Over the river and through the wood, trot fast my dapple gray. Spring over the ground like a hunting hound, for this is Thanksgiving day. Over the river and through the wood, now Grandmothers face I spy. Hurrah for the fun, is the pudding done? Hurrah for the Pumpkin Pie."

I've actually been pretty numb since finding out about grandma, and yesterday teaching this song to the kids didn't seem to bother me, but today I broke down. It was the last class and they weren't being very good. I was trying all the usual things to get them to quiet down, and nothing was working. So I broke down and cried, and told a whole class of first graders how I just lost my grandmother. Well, they were pretty good after that, but class was pretty close to done too. And they all wasted no time in telling every adult at the school that I cried because my grandmother was gone. Sweet and Embarrassing all at the same time.

and now I'm just waiting for time to pass, until I can be with other Family and Friends who feel the loss.

Lindsey's Play

Lindsey was in another drama club this year, and they put on "Little Red Riding Hood" Lindsey was a squirrel. I helped make the tails, and the masks. Anywho, here's the video of her singing. This is taken from my phone. when I get the higher quality DVD I'll post that.


And of course I have to share with you this little video of Westley in a jump house.

Bonjour

So to update you on things, Jason and I had our 8th anniversary. He took me to a really fancy resterant, and the food was really good. Dad came down and took the kids and me to the Northern California Ren Faire. The kids had a great time, espeiaclly Westley, who was dressed as a pirate with a monkey on his back (which was the kid leash) There was so much to see and do, that we didn't watch too many shows, but we had a great time. Then Dad bought Lindsey her halloween costume. She wanted to be a werewolf and found a costume with a mask and gloves. She's really excited about it, and she loves Grandpa so much for buying it for her before they ran out of her size. This Past weekend was the Ham Radio Convention that our radio club puts on. Jason's the president of the radio club, so he needed to be there most of the time, so we got a room at the Marriott there and stayed two nights. The heated pool was cold. Lindsey didn't seem to mind it, but when Westley started shivering we went back to the room. Which turned out to be ok, because there was a bathtub, which Westley called the little pool. He had so much fun in the tub that he snuck back in when Lindsey was having a turn and jumped in with all his clothes on. Then Jason's Dad came over and had Pizza with us in our room. Saturday was the school Carnival. The music teacher for the older grades, and her husband have a band and they played. Here's some video, but it's wobblly because Westley kept jumping in my lap as I was recording, and then in cut off a little early. Still I love this Band!


We had a great time at Carnival, and all my students were happy to see me, even though I didn't dress up in my costume (I told them I had to save it for Halloween because it's THAT cool) Lindsey won the raffle for her to go roller skating with her teacher (plus two friends). Westley won enough tickets to get a mini basket ball hoop and balls. He loves dropping the balls in. He also got a blow up microphone, which he has been having a blast with.

School has been going great. The Kinders are going to preform for the PTA meeting in December, so we've been working on songs for that, along with a halloween song, with the cutest actions I've ever seen. I'll try to post a video of one of the classes preforming soon.I taught them "Once there was a Snowman" this week, and they love it. Of course I have to play it faster and faster each time, so I gotta really work on the piano part so I can it "super fast". We also started "May peace be always with you." which is really slow, and they don't really like, but I told them there parents will love it, so they are trying there best. We are going to start "Over the river and through the woods" later, and that will be our whole concert.
The First and Second Graders are working on a "hello" song and we've already learned it in English, Spainsh and French.I am so proud of them! The Second graders even started a song called "did you ever want to be the president".

So everything here is fine. here's a couple pics. Westley with his Chef Boy Ardie, and Lindsey doing a flip on the swings.

How's it going

Everything here is going Fine. School is really going great. All I'm taking is choir and an english class (where amazingly enough I'm one of the few who know how to speak it) but I'm doing well in my classes. My last essay I got an A, and I have high hopes for my next one.

Teaching is going so well. I love all my kids, and they are really starting to come along. I taught each grade a pirate song for Internation talk like a pirate day, and on that day I dressed up like a pirate. Now we are starting to learn Halloween songs, and it's great. I went to a music colaboration meeting with all the other music teachers in the disrict. One guy keot complaining how he doesn't get paid enough. All I could think was "I'd do this for free if that's what it would take." of course, with Jason's super cool job, We haven't had to worry about money for a little while, so I guess I'd feel the same if this job was my only paycheck.

well, that's it for now. I'll post more next week.